Hello aliasdck, for me it depends a little bit on the spokes. 2 mm - 1.5 mm - 2 mm spokes for example seem to feel a little more flexible under the same tension. In general I never have tightened my spokes super strong. I think this can even be a risk for the hub flange and I don't see a benefit. So tight but not super tight works for me. The key is to check the tension regularly and to make sure that the tension is similar for all spokes in the wheel.