The fork problem is easy to fix my friend. Simply loosen your stem bolts & tighten the compression bolt (bolt on top of your stem) down untill the forks have no play, then tighten your stem bolts back up & your done.
The compression bolt is part of your fork. What you need to do is undo the two bolts on the back of the swiss miss then tighten down the bolt that threads directly into your fork.
After u loosen the stem bolts and take off the compression bolt, Just try to twist to take the bars-stem off the forks dude
if you really want them off, take out both bolts and screw them in from the opposite side, put a butter knife blade in the gap and tighten just a tiny bit to spread the gap a little. they should pull right off with little effort if your compression bolt is removed.
Lol, I'm so stupid.